放下电话,我一路哭着和爸爸妈妈匆匆忙忙赶到了老家。奶奶果真老了,已装在黑色的棺材里,放进了灵棚。好多人穿着白色的孝服,坐在灵棚下哭。看见大家哭,我也伤心得哭起来。这时爷爷给我头上缠了一截白布,拉我到奶奶的灵前,让我跪下给奶奶磕了三个头。我跪在草垫上,抬头看着奶奶的`棺材,心想慈祥的奶奶就睡在这怕人的棺材里,一动不动。我不敢爬到棺材沿上看,但又很想看看奶奶,因为奶奶对我最好了,常常给我讲故事,给我好吃的东西。
记得我小时候,是和哥哥一起在奶奶身边长大的。那时哥哥不听话,有时还欺负我,奶奶就护着我,总是批评哥哥。后来长大了,我就到城里来上学。每到周末,奶奶就站在门口等我回去看她。要是我不回去,她就等到天黑。她常把好吃的东西藏在柜子里,等我回去吃。有时好吃的东西都藏坏了,奶奶也舍不得吃。
记得那是一个星期天,我高高兴兴的回到老家。奶奶见到我,就急忙从柜子里取好吃的。我一看是一块生日蛋糕。我惊呆了。这还是两个月前,奶奶过生日,我忙着上学,没有回家。爸爸给奶奶买了蛋糕,送到家里又匆匆走了。没想到奶奶舍不得吃,一直给我藏着。可惜蛋糕已经发霉,不能吃了。后来奶奶就把这块蛋糕放在锅里蒸一蒸,自己吃了。
想到奶奶平日里对我的好,我不由得大声地哭了起来,越哭越伤心,任凭别人挡我、哄我,我就是忍不住哭声。我想大声地哭,把奶奶哭醒来,让她再看看我,可是最终奶奶还是在我的哭声里静悄瞧地走了,永远地丢下我孤独地走了。
When I was a freshman in college I watched the film Gua Sha Treatment for the first time, now I am a junior student and I come back to review the movie from a multicultural aspect, I have many different feelings after watching the film again.
At the beginning of the film, XuDatong is given an award and later he delivers a speech. What makes me impressed most is in his speech he says “one day I will become one of you, a truly successful American, today this award proved that America is a true land of opportunity and I am the living proof of that.” At that moment Xu thinks he has realized his American Dream totally with his lovingly wife and adorable son. However, I think it is ironical that to make a speech like that and I assume it is made on purpose to hind a clue for the story's development. How many non—American people have such a beautiful American dream? One of my classmate studies in American now and before he went aboard he told me his American dream is he can stand at the top of the New York. To be honest, I also dream that one day I can get the Green Card living there happily and successfully maybe working at the Wall Street. When Xu gets the award he thinks he entirely melted in the melting pot neglecting the multicultural obstruct, later the plot goes against the way he thinks. And later Quinlan asked Xu'why you be the scapegoat of your father?' Xu answers 'because he is Chinese.' Then maybe Xu knows that there is always a wide gap between Chinese and American cultures.
The second scene is Xu hit his son Denis because Denis hit the son of xu's boss, at the middle of the film xu tells his boss that he hit his own son is only to show his respect to his boss John Quinlan, that time Quinlan feels puzzled “what a Chinese logic”,yes, American can never understand such a logic full of Chinese characteristic, because they respect everyone including the children, they won't beat a child to please the boss, and there is no such a conception of degree between employee and employer, they feel everyone is equal, which is quite different from china.
Connected to the second scene, the third difference I want to analyze is the care for the children. In America, people pay more attention to the right of children which can be seen from the law—leaving children alone at home is illegal, while in China it is so common that almost everyone may experience such loneliness. And Children Welfare Agency does work in America which shows the importance Americans attach to children's right. What's more, I remember a line 'No one won the case, especially the child.' In my opinion, it also manifests the universal concern from the American public to the children.
The fourth aspect is following the procedure, in the film, more than there times, the people focus on the rule, the law, the procedure. At the Christmas Eve Xu wants to return back to his home pretending as a Santa Claus, what a pity, the security recognizes him and persuades 'you are always a good tenement, never causes troubles for me.' And another scene is at the end of the film , the judge says 'I have to follow the procedure.' However, in China people always have to ask for a favor to do something, and later you have to pay back the favor,for myself, I prefer the American style, strict to the procedure.
The fifth and the last point is the humors, Quinlan says 'you can't fall, your health security is the company paid.' 'Datong, welcome home, maybe next time, you can come from the front door.' 'dady, why you come from the window' ' because we don't have a chimney.' I really adore this distinguished American humor, especially in dangerous situations, which is quite rare in China.
That's my whole reaction to Gua Sha Treatment.
4月30日晚我和妈妈拖着疲惫的身体上了床,还未入眠,爸爸便打来一个电话说奶奶去世了,霎那间,我心里犹如一根针深深地扎了进去。一想起奶奶那充满慈爱的面容;一想起奶奶那整天忙里忙外的身影;一想起小时候撒娇,要奶奶买零食......虽然我心中有千不该,万不该想对奶奶说,但来不及了,一切都晚了。泪水顿时模糊了双眼……
第二天,我拖着沉重的步伐来到奶奶家。只见奶奶躺在一张床上,身穿一件本地有名的袍子,静静地走了。妈妈为我戴好了帽子,系好了白带。不知几点了,居然有七位和尚破门而入,什么念文书.用硬币去扔米堆得字,说是能让奶奶的灵魂不被折磨,我半信半疑。
第三天了,奶奶的遗体要化成灰烬了,我又想哭了,但我时刻提醒自己:不能哭,哭是没用的,哭疯了也哭不回奶奶的。
在告别厅中,大家不知绕着奶奶走了多少圈,不知哭了多少次,但我一滴泪也掉不下来,为什么?老天爷,难道我看奶奶最后几眼的'时候也不行吗?让我再为奶奶哭一次吧!
我不停地在取灰室窗前徘徊,如能见到奶奶的骨灰该多好啊!想着想着,无意间又看见了奶奶的相框,奶奶那和蔼可亲的笑脸,泪水禁不住夺眶而出,像断了线的珠子,流无止境```````
奶奶,看见您的相框,我就想起您每天拖着病危的身子下地种田,虽然您的儿子有钱,但您仍未放弃那几十年来的8亩地。怪不得花圈那么多,一个惊人的数目~~~97个呀!想象不出有那么多。写到这儿,我耳边仿佛有想起您常叫我“乖乖头”。啊,多熟悉,往事您为我做的一切的一切都一一展现在我眼前。泪水再一次湿润了双眼……奶奶,您看,我还有这么多话要对您说,但您为什么这么匆匆地走了呢?奶奶,您有没有考虑过我,我还小,您就命丧黄泉了。您答应过我,等病好了,您会亲自给我买巧克力,可现在……
嗨,算了,我写再多,说再多,奶奶也不会知道了。这件事将永远铭刻在我的心里,奶奶的笑容奶奶的亲切都将会记在心中,直到永远永远……
星期天下午,我本打算在家里玩,可奶奶非拉着我去小区广场,说要给我个惊喜。到了广场,只见一条醒目的横幅挂在广场的两棵树之间,我仔细一看,上面写着:全民“梨园春”。我往四周看了看,全是中老年人,他们坐在凳子上,交头接耳,等着节目开始。我无奈地对奶奶说:“老佛爷呀,您在家里没听够,还拉我来这里听啊,您就饶了我吧!”奶奶不说话,只是眯着眼对我笑,也不让我回家。我只好硬着头皮和奶奶一起坐了下来。不一会儿,主持人讲了开场白,我才知道这是比赛。最后,主持人说:“请l号参赛选手上场。”坐在我身边的奶奶二话不说立即起身,抖抖衣服,正正身,挺有范儿地登上了台。奶奶一张口,台下就响起了掌声。我不由得一惊,使劲鼓起掌来,原来奶奶唱得这么好!字正腔圆,抑扬有度,表情丰富,动作到位,坐在台下的我别提多激动了!比赛结束,奶奶还得了奖呢。
事后,我好奇地问奶奶:“您怎么突然参加戏曲大赛了?”奶奶说:“平时你们上班的上班,上学的上学,你爷爷也有自己的爱好,我自己在家只能听听戏打发时间,不知不觉就爱上唱戏了,经常自己在家练呢。看到这个比赛就想著来试一试。”我笑着说:“嘻嘻,戏曲已经成了您的‘好朋友’啦!”
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