亲爱的刘建军先生:
你好!请你务必在每次打开空间的时候看看下面的这些文字,当你忧伤的时候,当你怀疑的时候,当你烦恼的时候,当你迷惘的时候,当你想放弃的时候。请你相信你自己,没有谁会救你,只有你自己才是你自己的上帝,即只有你才能拯救你。
请你不要放弃追求。你说过,要嫁就嫁给幸福,要输就输给追求,奔跑着就是幸福的,追求着的就是自信的。请你遵守你诺言。没有了追求你就会成为行尸走肉,这绝非危言耸听。亲爱的!起程吧,你的路就在脚下,而你的未来却还在前方。梦醒的地方就是黎明,不要让黑暗浸透你的双眼,勇敢的走过去,那是另一片天地。追求应是你不变的主题。
请你不要怀疑自己。你说你感到万分沮丧,甚至开始怀疑人生。你说你一路走来,满是坎坷,满是沧桑。亲爱的,你要振作!悲伤不应该属于你的青春。因为怀疑,你失去了太多的东西,你不要再犹豫了,抛弃他,不要再让他伤害你了。这一切都是因为你的人生已再次走到了十字路口。
你不可以懈怠。人生不过百年,弹指一挥间,也许已是百年之后。你不能懈怠,你要抓住分分秒秒,无论做什么,都要有所收获。你要明白你的生命来之不易。浪费了他是你一生的罪过。记着,你不可懈怠。
你要学会坚强。你一定要坚强啊,你可以因感动而哭泣,但你不可以因为生活的艰苦而哭泣。在你未来的路上还会有风雨无数,你不可退缩,你不可犹豫,再苦再难也要坚强,坚强是你永远不能放弃的品格,是你永远要坚守的。你可以过得很苦,但你要坚强。你要相信,天无绝人之路。
你要学会孤独。你说你在高四学会了孤独,可你不甘呢。那么从今天起,你要学会:一个人的奔跑,一个人的拼搏,一个人的忧伤,一个人的奋斗,一个人的生活,一个人的依靠,一个人的轨道,一个人的明天。你要孤独一生,你要准备好。也许孤独才是你一生最好的注脚,你要相信孤独的钢琴也能弹出音乐。记着孤独的你也会成功。
你要韬光养晦。低调的为人,低调的做事。不要给自己招致太多的麻烦,因为你活在别人的屋檐下。如果有一天你站在了别人的屋顶上,那你也要记着低头,因为上边还有天空,下边还有大地。不是因为你渺小,而是这个世界太他妈大。不要让别人恨上你,那是很麻烦的一件事,化解它最好办法就是低调。
你要学会吃苦。你来自寒门,你知道,吃得苦中苦,方为人上人。可那还不够,人生是一场艰难的\'旅途,在途中,千般苦,万种难。你永远无法想象未来的苦有多苦,你太天真,总以为在高四你就尝尽了人间酸苦。亲爱的!你要准备好,苦从来都是留给人来吃的。
你一定要朴素。你出自农家,朴素应该是你的根本,你应该明白,清水出芙蓉,天然去雕饰的美丽。不要追逐奢靡,那会腐蚀你的灵魂,迷惑你的心智。你要坚守那一方朴素的星空,守望那一份朴素的魅力。
你要一如既往的读书。腹有诗书气自华,读书会提升你的品味,塑造你的人格,充实你的生活,锻炼你的思维,培养你的气质。你一定要努力读书,不要再有书到用时方恨少的遗憾。以书为友,以书为伴,书山有路,书海无涯。你要持之以恒。
你要学会幽默。幽默而非滑稽,幽默是建立在智慧的基础之上,智慧来自于知识与,你要积累你的知识与经验。有朝一日,你要学会幽默,那是做人的技术,也是为人的艺术。让别人快乐,让你的智慧静静地流进别人的心田。
你可以平凡,但你绝不可以平庸。请你记住,你不可庸庸碌碌的了结你的一生,你必须至少做一件有意义的事。不要枉为人在这世上走一遭。你要不甘平庸,知道吗,你要不甘心呢,你要知道,你这一生时时刻刻都要拒绝平庸。你付出了很多,你不可自己对不起自己啊。
你要学会改变自己。你不可以一成不变,你不可忍受你的缺点,你要认清你自己。你不可糊糊涂涂过一生,你要活得明白。你要变得优秀,你要不断地剔除你的灵魂的肮脏。你要向善,你要上进,这是你改变的方向。
你要爱你的父母。他们是你最值得尊敬的人,在你的成长过程,他们几乎付出了他们一生的所有心血。树欲静而风不止,子欲养而亲不待。百善孝为先,你不能不孝啊,你欠他们的太多了。那么温馨的一份感情,请你不要让他留下终生的遗憾。不要让他们的眼睛里藏有忧郁的色彩,不要让他们的眼睛里出现无助的泪水。
你要爱你的兄弟姐妹。不是你看着他们长大就是他们看着你长大。一起吵架,一起长大。正是他们给了你童年那么多美好的记忆。祝福他们吧。他们很善良,他们很爱你。一声哥哥,你是否感动?一句祝福,你是否还记着?远方的一个电话,那一份牵挂,请你不要忘记。
你要爱你的妻子。正是她陪你走过了风风雨雨而又不离不弃。给她所有的爱与幸福。执子之手,与子偕老。一日夫妻百日恩呢,请你珍惜你们的所有的点点滴滴。也许是柴米油盐酱醋茶那么简单,也许是缝缝补补洗洗那么琐碎。也请你记着,她不容易。
你要爱你的朋友。不要拒绝他们的友谊,他们是你一生的财富。是他们在你生命的黑夜给了你走下去的勇气,是他们在你生命的冬天里给了你火炉的温暖。是他们和你一起打闹,一起走过。今天他们已游弋四方,明天他们仍然在千里之外,可友谊却在无声的传递着。请你给他们祝福吧。
你的爱要大度。有一天当你所爱的人投入了别人的怀抱,那么也请你祝福他们一路走好,幸福美满。请你不要恨她,要恨就恨你自己吧。
你要学会感谢。成功了,感谢别人;失败了,感谢你自己。
当有一天上帝来招你回去的时候,你要走的坦然,不要恐惧。在另一个世界你也要做一个善良的人,上进的人。
Dear Mrs Hu,
I am very glad to write to you about what I think in my mind. First of all, I think I have to admit that you have excellect command of English and teach us much knowledge, which is not only English but also lots of thinking on life .
Next,You help us how to see the world and even how to apply for a good job.
But I think what impressed me most was the way you work. You do everything so patiently and carefully, which is highly thought of by all the classmates...All of these leads us to respect you very much.
Well,AS for me,I think full of humor is your another impressed charactistics.You know, I just regard your class as a very enjoying meal. I guess It’s widely acknowledged that all of your students like It very much.
To conclude,I think you are a very good teacher. I hope you will pay more attention to your health and be happy every day.
Sincerely,
Zhao Zhouxing
亲爱的悦:
自从进入小学冲刺阶段以来,你一直走在生活的阴影里,看不见阳光,仿佛生活失去了太阳。我知道你一直在这个黑暗的深渊中痛苦的挣扎,却始终不敢抬头仰望。
我太熟悉你这个人,总是在一点小小的困难面前选择退缩,不敢正视,不敢面对。你太过柔弱,总是为了一点小事而伤感很久。悦,你回首看看昔日那个活泼快乐,天真无邪的小女孩。而今的你,笑容中总隐含着莫名的忧伤和一丝落寞。昔日的那个小女孩真的已不复存在了吗?
悦,或许你是个不幸的孩子,在学习的压力下还要承受别的痛苦。对于12岁的你要担起这样一个重担并不容易。所以你一心想要离开这个是非之地,在外面的纷繁世界寻找一片人生的净土。我想郑重的告诉你——你已经不小了,很多事情必须学会承受。我知道这两年你度过了多少漫漫长夜,留下了多少残滴泪痕。但是,请你想想深爱你的爸爸妈妈,你爱的婶婶们和哥哥姐姐还有邹宇欣,朱文萱,严安祺她们给你带来的快乐。你会发现其实上天待你并不薄,在你寂寞的生活里留给了你生命中永恒的天使。
在这两年的时间里,你失去了一个自己,却挖掘了另一个自己。一个人只有在逆境中方能成长。比起那些一帆风顺的同龄孩子,或许你比他们懂得的要更多。我想告诉你,这两年你所经受的痛苦,流过的泪水是值得的。不信你看,比起当初那个满脸稚气的小女孩,你真的长大了,懂事了。今天,当你看到昨天忙了一晚并且带病的妈妈为了晾衣服天没亮就起床。我知道被窝中的你再也无法入睡。难道妈妈就乐意这样的生活吗?难道她就不想多睡一会儿吗?这就是责任,身为一个母亲和一个女人的责任。我知道此时的你已在心中暗下决心。
悦,我太熟悉你了。你知道成功背后所付出的汗水,懂得no pains,no gains。你常常说人生是一场自己和自己的竞技,与人无关,与人无尤。战胜一个懦弱的自己更胜过击败其他的生命。这两年你也曾软弱无力,哭泣过,退缩过,生活在一片阴暗之中。但你推开窗看看今天,阳光普照。一连数天的阴雨之后,太阳最终为你而展开笑颜。这不就是人生吗?无论晴朗还是阴暗的日子都会过去,但我们心中要长留一块美丽的境域。经过这段日子的磨砺,我相信你对生命应有更大的。
这两年是你对人生的一段领悟时期,你更应懂得感恩,亦更懂得珍惜。正如你自己所说——微笑着去面对挫折,去接受幸福;去品味孤独,去沐浴忧伤。在平静中看红尘飞舞,在孤寂中品世事沉浮。
悦,你说今天是你人生蜕变的起程。你知道这将是一段漫长而艰辛的过程。但我相信终有一天,你会化蛹成蝶,凭借着一双美丽而坚硬的翅膀去追逐梦想。
悦,我知道这段蜕变过程是你有生以来给自己的一个大功课,而这一个功课对你来说并不容易。但我坚信,你能够做到。我清楚的知道,你能够找回勇气,找回信心,找回自己!
永远爱你的人
粗心的自己:
你好!我是你心里的小人儿。我们天天一起玩耍,一起生活。今天,我给你写信,是为了让你知道自己的缺点,尽快改正。
一年级时,你虽然很调皮,但是做正事的时候也挺认真。可是最近,你却一反常态,尽做一些不该做的事。
还记得上次英语吗?我本来觉得你会在家里好好复习,可你却在电脑前纹丝不动,好像被电脑勾去了魂,还把妈妈惹生气了。结果,你一直看到了十点,哪儿还有时间复习呢?我想,也许你早上还会复习一阵子,可你却睡过了头,差点儿迟到了。当时,你飞快地抓起早饭就往车站跑,登上一辆刚刚到站的101公交车,从口袋里摸出一张公交卡,刷了一下,便在后边啃起早饭来,还被公交车司机骂了一顿,幸好没迟到。上课的时候,你心不在焉下课了,你也没有复习斋是像一阵风似的跑出去玩了。我真为你担心,怕你又是出什么差错。果然,不出我所料,考试时你的脑子昏昏沉沉的连想都不想,乱猜题目,写完了,也不检查,还在下面玩起了铅笔。天知道你错了多少题!试卷发下来,你果真错得一塌糊涂。
好了,时间也不早了,我就写到这吧!
祝你:身体健康,学习进步!
It wasn't until we moved into our new home in 2006 that I found it again. It was addressed to me with explicit instructions not to open until my birthday 2005. It was now 2006 so I decided to open it. This is what it said:
Dear Sherri
By the time you read this you will be 30. At the age of 18 I had so many hopes and dreams about where you'd be, what you'd be doing and with whom you'd spend your life with.
Right now I hope that you have traveled and seen everything you've always wanted to, both in Canada and overseas, and maybe even settled down somewhere in Australia doing some research in the field of biology (genetics.
I hope you're married to the man of your dreams. The man of mine is Gwynn. He is originally from South Africa (another place I wish to visit.
You'll probably have two children of your own – a girl(Michaela Anne and a boy (name yet to be decided.
If everything goes according to plan you'll be living in Australia in a big house in a small town outside of a big city with a lot of land, a dog, Gwynn and your two beautiful children. Hopefully you have a career in the medical field, maybe doing research in genetics. Gwynn will be a computer programmer and you will be doing alright for yourselves.
However, if things don't go according to plan for you, I wish you all the love, happiness and joy in the world and don't settle for anything less than the best since that is absolutely what you deserve.
Live long, be happy and live life to it's fullest.
Love Sherri "18″
When I read this for the first time since writing it I was floored. Even now having dug this up again another 4 years later I still can't help but think this is really cool.
So much of what I wanted for myself has materialized.
I did travel to a few more places in Canada although I haven't seen everything I'd like to.I did marry the man of my dreams and yes he still is my one and only.I've traveled to the UK, South Africa, Australia and New Zealand. I lived in Australia for nearly 4 years in a big house, in a small suburb, in a major city (close enough. I had a career in Biology in the field of genetics for 10 years.I have two lovely kids – both boys (names now decided.
I have not one dog but two dogs. Both yellow labs from Australia.Gwynn is a computer programmer. We are doing okay for ourselves.
After writing this I quickly forgot about what I had put in here actually. The things that materialized were all met with quite a bit of resistance (all internal but I suppose these were things that I really did want. Having never strayed too far from home overseas travel was a huge deal. Having never been away from my family moving to Australia for several years was an incredibly huge decision.
I find it fascinating how the dreams of a young and naive little girl can become a grown woman's reality.
I'm curious if you guys have ever written anything to your future self and how it stacks up to your current reality. If you haven't, will you join me in writing a letter now to yourself in say 10 years from now? It's an interesting little experiment.
亲爱的自己:
成长就是这样,痛并快乐着,你的接受这个事实,然后无所畏惧的长大。更重要的是要学会爱自己。 ——题记
亲爱的自己,请不要为模糊不清的未来担忧,因为生活,需要清清楚楚的为现在奋斗。
亲爱的自己,如果不开心就找个角落或者躲在被子里面大哭吧,请不要乞求别人的同情,因为时间是治疗伤痛最好的药方。
亲爱的自己,我们可以发泄自己的情绪,但请不要对无辜的人行使这项权利。因为上海的不仅是他们还有自己。
亲爱的`自己,永远不要轻易对别人许下承诺,如果实现不了就成了欠下的债务。
亲爱的自己,请不要抓住不堪的回忆不放,着犹断了线的风筝一般,只能让他随风而去。放过他更是放过自己。
亲爱的自己,请好好对待你身边的那些人,因为爱情可能只是暂时的但友情却是长久的。
亲爱的自己,每天早晨醒来,看到自己和阳光都在,这就是我想要的未来。
亲爱的自己,做让你开心的事,交让你笑的朋友,像呼吸一样频繁的开怀大笑,向生命一样长久的爱。
亲爱的自己,永远都要充满希望,永远都要向前,无论怎样,世界上总会有一个人为你加油鼓劲。
亲爱的自己,不要太在乎一些人一些事,顺其自然吧,因为这个世界就是这么不公平,往往在最在乎的面前我们最没有价值。
亲爱的自己,永远不要为难自己,聪明的人是不会不吃饭、哭泣、自闭、抑郁。
亲爱的自己,你是世界上独一无二的,就算没有人欣赏,也要好好的爱自己,做最真实的自己。要充满自信,甚至是自恋,也要时刻提醒自己值得拥有一切。
亲爱的自己,凡事皆可顺去自然,遇事则处之泰然,的一只是要淡然,失意则要坦然,因为世界上没有过不去的坎。
亲爱的自己,请不要拿自己的生活跟别人比,因为你无法了解别人的经历,没人能主宰你的幸福除了你自己。
尽情的收获吧!相信你一定能捧回甜美的果实。如今,我快乐的生活,勇敢面对挫折。我真中父母给予的爱,珍惜朋友给予的关心,将来还会珍爱爱侣给予的包容。
亲爱的自己,这些你收到了吗?
Dear MS Hu,
It\'s my honor to get the chance to write to you. Nowadays, people seldom write letters, instead, they make a call or send a SMS. However, in some circumstance, writing letters is indispensable.
In the class, you know well how to keep the class active. You\'ve got such an open mind that you can keep leading us to talk about the topic during the whole class. I learned not only the listening and writing skills but also the presentation skills as well as the knowledge of the concerned areas.
In addition, It seems that although I have been studying English during the last many years, I can’t speaking English fluently and precisely like the local people. Would you like to give me some suggestions on how to pronounce English like local people?
Yours sincerely,
Xia Wenjie
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